There A Problem With People Having Sex That We Need To Talk About

I just stumbled across some sexual data which I have not third-party verified but which 100% matches all the stuff I’ve learned from speaking with thousands of men and women over the past almost 20 years in discussing these topics.

It’s these two data points:

1. Most sex is over within 2-7 minutes(!). This is almost always because men orgasm too soon. (Jesus.)

2. Most women require approximately 21 minutes of sex to orgasm. This is because of both emotional “prep” that most women need to cum as well as to get the proper organs down there engorged enough.

Okay. This is horrible.

Though not unexpected.

I’ve said many times that when I have sex, and I have sex a lot, my sexual sessions will typically run between 18 and 29 minutes on average, and this usually doesn’t count any sort of foreplay like kissing or playing with boobs and things like that. I’m talking 18 to 29 minutes of real sex.

I know this because I’ve timed it several times over the last many years, including recently.

Let me also add in there that I’m 53 years old and overweight, which means I’m technically worse off physically than most of you guys reading these words. It’s still no problem for me to last this long and enjoy the entire thing.

(And I do enjoy sex a lot. That’s why I do it a lot with multiple women and have consistently for almost 20 years.)

Yet most guys, as has been reported to me, can only last a few minutes, which is problem number one.

Problem number two is that women aren’t cumming during sex, which has also been reported to me by a large number of women.

Guys enter, go pump-pumpity-pump, cum, roll over exhausted (pussy), and the woman is still lying there with a confused “what about me?” look on her face.

As you may or may not be aware, one of the Cardinal Rules that is mandatory for nonmonogamous relationships is that you need to make sure the woman cums every time you have sex, at least for FBs and MLTRs. (Your OLTR, because you’re having sex more often with her, will sometimes just tell you to “skip” her today and enjoy yourself. Cumming is more “work” for women than it is for us guys.)

You need to do this because when a woman is having sex with you while she knows you’re having sex with other women, this is emotionally difficult for her. It conflicts with her false Societal Programming and bullshit Disney desires that right-wing AND left-wing society has shoved down her throat since she was a little girl.

This means you need every weapon in your arsenal to ensure she will stick around even though she’s doing something directly opposed to her SP and Disney.

So this not cumming thing is a serious problem.

It means two things for you:

Item one. If you’re cumming within just a few minutes of having sex most of the time, bro, there’s something wrong with you. This is not normal and not healthy.

I’m probably older than you and fatter than you and yet I have never had this problem in my entire life.

I’m not a doctor, psychologist, or sex therapist, so I can’t guide you here on how to fix this problem (though I would guess it’s too much porn). I’m just saying that there is something wrong with you that you need to fucking fix as fast as you can.

Don’t be like most beta males and just throw your arms in the air and declare, “That’s just the way I am.” No, Buttercup. Fix it.

Item two. For FBs and MLTRs, the “always make her cum” rule still applies even if you only last a few minutes. This is why I recommend to most men that you start to have sex, then after a few short minutes (well before you orgasm), pull out, spend time on her and make her cum first, then you re-enter and finish yourself.

Worst case, you can have sex, finish, take a quick minute, and then work on her to make sure she cums too, but I like the first method better.

This entire thing is just really bad. Don’t be a part of it.